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		<title>What has relationships work: A proposition</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2011 08:57:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Consider that we have a fundamental misunderstanding about relationships, and what has them work or not work. We have it that relationships are 50% them, 50% us. To expand, we have it that they are 50% responsible for having the &#8230; <a href="http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/12/02/what-has-relationships-work-a-proposition/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=solidgoldcreativity.com&amp;blog=4537927&amp;post=8939&amp;subd=solidgoldcreativity&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Notes from the project: One month in</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 04:32:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s about a month – already! – since The Leadership Project got going in earnest. Time to note some of the things I&#8217;ve learned, including the things I could never have foreseen. 1. Having a coach really works She is someone &#8230; <a href="http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/11/18/notes-from-the-project-one-month-in/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=solidgoldcreativity.com&amp;blog=4537927&amp;post=8801&amp;subd=solidgoldcreativity&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>We need to talk about Kevin and other stuff</title>
		<link>http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/11/15/we-need-to-talk-about-kevin-and-other-stuff/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 02:48:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was the last line in a tabloid article about the opening of the film, We Need To Talk About Kevin. Based on the best-selling novel by Lionel Shriver, the film is the story of a mother who struggles to &#8230; <a href="http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/11/15/we-need-to-talk-about-kevin-and-other-stuff/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=solidgoldcreativity.com&amp;blog=4537927&amp;post=8777&amp;subd=solidgoldcreativity&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>With the cops, Sunday, 8am</title>
		<link>http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/11/07/with-the-cops-sunday-8am/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 08:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My friend, A, recently did The Landmark Forum and we&#8217;ve been having lots of fun discussing how its effects are showing up in our lives. One of the ways it&#8217;s showing up for her was demonstrated in an incident that &#8230; <a href="http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/11/07/with-the-cops-sunday-8am/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=solidgoldcreativity.com&amp;blog=4537927&amp;post=8691&amp;subd=solidgoldcreativity&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Being There</title>
		<link>http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/09/28/being-there/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Sep 2011 12:41:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I want to return to the comment Hansi made the other day about the Buddhist concept of anatta or no-self, and the idea that our view of ourselves as a fixed and unchanging entity or self is an illusion. I &#8230; <a href="http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/09/28/being-there/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=solidgoldcreativity.com&amp;blog=4537927&amp;post=8306&amp;subd=solidgoldcreativity&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Napping with the greats</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Sep 2011 06:30:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Charles Darwin, Winston Churchill, Gustave Flaubert and Vladimir Nabokov all did it, Churchill, moreover, with a whisky and soda accompaniment. Each of them, according to the daily schedules of the Great featured in a recent Lapham’s Quarterly, had a daily nap &#8230; <a href="http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/09/14/napping-with-the-greats/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=solidgoldcreativity.com&amp;blog=4537927&amp;post=8051&amp;subd=solidgoldcreativity&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Cafe Scheherazade</title>
		<link>http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/08/25/cafe-scheherazade/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Aug 2011 06:15:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Café Scheherazade operated in Melbourne, Australia for 40 years, from its opening in 1958 to its closure in 2008. Its proprietors, Avram and Masha Zeleznikov, refugees from post-War Europe, created the famous café as a place for local residents, Jewish and &#8230; <a href="http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/08/25/cafe-scheherazade/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=solidgoldcreativity.com&amp;blog=4537927&amp;post=7687&amp;subd=solidgoldcreativity&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The antidote to fear</title>
		<link>http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/08/24/the-antidote-to-fear/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2011 03:19:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I made a great discovery in the last few years: integrity is the antidote to fear. What I mean by integrity is the state of being whole and complete. The practice of integrity The practice of integrity that I follow &#8230; <a href="http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/08/24/the-antidote-to-fear/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=solidgoldcreativity.com&amp;blog=4537927&amp;post=7645&amp;subd=solidgoldcreativity&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Beyond wanting to be wanted: Part 4</title>
		<link>http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/08/18/beyond-wanting-to-be-wanted-part-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 11:35:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The book is Women and Desire: Beyond Wanting to be Wanted by Polly Young-Eisendrath. The hypothesis is as follows:  In her book Polly Young-Eisendrath hypothesises that Lacan was right after all: women want to be wanted, not to be loved. Women’s &#8230; <a href="http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/08/18/beyond-wanting-to-be-wanted-part-4/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=solidgoldcreativity.com&amp;blog=4537927&amp;post=7479&amp;subd=solidgoldcreativity&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Beyond wanting to be wanted: Part 3</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Aug 2011 12:19:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Status of women]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Women who've carried the day]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Lacan]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Polly Young-Eisendrath]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Beauty Myth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wanting to be desirable]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The hypothesis so far. In her book – Women and Desire: Beyond Wanting to be Wanted – Polly Young-Eisendrath hypothesises that Lacan was right after all: women want to be wanted, not to be loved. Women’s compulsion to be desired &#8230; <a href="http://solidgoldcreativity.com/2011/08/17/beyond-wanting-to-be-wanted-part-3/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=solidgoldcreativity.com&amp;blog=4537927&amp;post=7457&amp;subd=solidgoldcreativity&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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