This motto I saw the other day is the simple truth. All the urgings and exhortations on Facebook, LinkedIn and elsewhere about how to make change – to change yourself, your life, the world – occur to me to skip this basic reality. If you really wanted it, you would have it. To say it another way, what you want you get. There’s no not getting, no failure. Whatever your life looks like, it’s because you want it that way. If and when you want something different, you’ll have that instead.