Disappearing upset

A friend reminded me how we distinguish “upset” in the training we received at Landmark. Underneath the experience of upset is one of three things:

  1. a thwarted intention
  2. an unfulfilled expectation
  3. an undelivered communication.

Next time you’re upset about something, look and see which it is. When you do that the upset will disappear.

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